All the Thoughts of My Head

It's come the time where my mind is a messy place and in need of quite a bit of cleaning. It's bulk trash soon so I must let go of my short thoughts that are but paragraphs and can't become more than such.
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The wind isn't something you can see on its own. If there is snow or rain or dust or leaves in the wind you can see the wind move them. You can only see the wind's effects but you can still feel it, so as not to deny its existence.

This can be seen paralleled in emotions. You can't see them only their effect. You can feel them and in that you know that they are real.
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Loneliness is the recurring cause of my death. No other aliment as often occurring. I simply despise loneliness. In this time it is so easy to be lonely.

I love to watch a storm and I love to live. But when there is no one to share it with what's the point. It's like the quote 'if a tree falls in a forest and no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound?' Why yes is does and I think the author was a lonely one.

I think they were mad with loneliness to have been plagued by the notion that a lack of recognition would lead to a lack of existence. I can see how when lonely this would seem and sometime feel to be true. It isn't, however loneliness would have you think it was.
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No worry is needed to be had I'm simply sick of being without people. And for the introverted to say as much it must be simply dire. There I go being terribly dramatic again. Maybe I should have been a performer and gone in the way of the dramatics.
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I ingest a great deal of stories and words throughout the day. And one that I've seen an awful lot of and often is these ideas of a perfect relationship. Most of which are referring to a romantic entanglement.

It seems to me that people want heathy relationships and what they view as a fanciful unrealistic perfect relationship is simply a healthy one. They make is seem like asking to be treated with honour and respect is of the fairy tales.

Their dream of a perfect relationship is for it to be healthy and safe. So sad for that to be the higher of standards. What should be the floor has become the ceiling and asking to not be hurt is seen as completely unrealistic.
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I hope this insight into the constant whirlwind of thoughts that occupy my head has found you well. I know myself to have reached boredom in this time and has no excuse anymore to not be creative.

It's a strange time to be alive and I hope loneliness hasn't found you. If it fact in has just know that I am very much so in the same boat. And if we're in the same boat then the loneliness shan't overcome us.

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