Angry and Grey

It has been a time of questions and answers. And answers that only lead to more questions. The answers never seem to have an action in mind. How incredibly frustrating. 

Anger was once thought to be evil. Now it’s a simmering emotion with nowhere to go. Breaking things and causing chaos isn’t the answer but it once was. This now raging steam has nowhere to go and will soon become too much for the space that it resides. 


There is so much and yet so little. It is easy to be happy. It is easy to be sad. It is hard to be angry. 


Being angry is more vulnerable than being sad. Because people won’t kick you if your down but being angry isn’t seen as down. Being angry is being red raw open to the world. It’s not knowing whether to keep running with arms thrown wide or to hide in cave far far away. 


Questions need not be large to rattle ones cage. There simply must be many. They weigh heavy on the heart and clutter the mind. Questions will always lead somewhere, however they will not hesitate to lead astray. 


It is easy to be left feeling grey when this is the present reality available. And feeling grey is no way to lead a life, not a full whole one anyway. 


But one must learn to sit in the grey until it has taught all it can teach. It is imperative that one learn. And keep leaning till one can lean no more. For if no learning occurs how can one change?


All the grey and anger and questions with few answers to spare has collided. Collided and become a kaleidoscope from which to see the world. It is skewed and difficult to live with. It is hard to see more than a few feet ahead but all one must do is continue. It is hard but it is real and that is enough. 

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